Classic gentleman who dresses up regularly even though I don’t have to, knowledgeable in a wide range of topics (3 degrees – Bachelor of Arts (double major) Religion and History, Bachelor of Science - Psychology and Masters of Social Work, Almost Masters of Education in Counseling Psychology – 6 hours short). I have taught undergraduate and graduate level social work at two universities and enjoy reading and writing. If I could I would quit my job and become a full time writer today (but ahhh when I retire – 5 years and counting). I’ve had a video blog on traditional wet shaving on YouTube for several years…it was my hobby but because of life struggles I haven’t posted in over a year. I’m the Mad Scientist of Wet Shaving. Also have a blog on emotional trauma and wet shaving on squarespace called vintagerazorcollection. I was once a newspaper journalist and photographer. I’m essentially an old soul who is out of place in the modern world. I’m usually quiet, a deep thinker (who over analyzes), but level headed and insightful. I quietly watch and listen but when I do talk people listen or I insert in the conversation a cutting dry humor one line comment that puts everyone on the floor laughing. At first many people view me as stand-offish, mysterious, and unapproachable...but give me a few minutes and usually people warm up to me quickly once they know the real me. Past life traumas have cause me to be somewhat guarded, but I have learned from them (twin brother died at birth, father died when I was 8 yrs. old, widowed twice (been widowed for past 5 years). Our adopted son - now 19, out of the home and estranged from me due to his meth and heroin abuse and stealing - nearly destroyed me emotionally and financially after my second wife died. Frankly the past few years has been a living hell. Struggling to try and sell my 3600 ft house because I can’t afford it anymore and I don’t need all that space living alone. I’m currently writing a book about trauma...I refer to it as having “Trauma Bombs” - those often common large and small life events that everyone has but their explosion and damage often leaves toxic emotional fallout radiation for months and years later. I’m here seeking a classy beautiful woman (inside and out) who likes to look good in public, dress well, is intelligent, outgoing, vivacious, romantic, affectionate and sexy. A life partner. I know many women have been traumatized by men in their past - emotionally and physically...they too have become wary and guarded in relationships. That doesn’t scare me away...I am patient and can wait for the inner passions of a woman to emerge once trust has been restored. You must be willing to touch and be touched, talk and listen. It is crucial for bonding and true intimacy and love to grow. I will know you are true, not fake and sincere if you reference something I have written here when messaging or texting me.
Come descriveresti il tuo partner ideale?
Beautiful and passionate woman who is a partner in everything.
Se fra 30 giorni finisse il mondo, cosa vorresti fare?
Spend time with those I love.
Se trovassi 10 milioni di dollari come li spenderesti?
Start a business, travel, give to those less fortunate.
Quanto spesso e a chi chiedi consiglio?
Occasionally from my brother or sister but usually just from myself and God.
Qual è il tratto caratteriale che apprezzi di più del tuo sesso?
The ability to show tender emotions and love.
Che tratto del carattere dell'altro sesso apprezzi di piu`?
The ability to be open to love and not live in past trauma
Che evento importante è successo ultimamente nella tua vita?
The death of my wife 5 years ago brought about a sequence of traumatic events (long story). I have tried my best to deal with my past trauma and exorcise it's effects from my life.
Che consiglio importante daresti ai tuoi figli?
Don't listen to the mass media or your peers. Be strong and think for yourself. Test things for the real truth and not what tickles the ears.
Cosa ti ha veramente impressionato?
How everyday little traumatic events and over time accumulate and totally control how you interact with your world.
Quali libri hai letto ultimamente?
The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes.
Quali sono i tuoi scopi nella vita oggi?
To sell my house and prepare for retirement so I can finally travel and write.
Chi ammiri?
Gordon Ramsay, Tom Selleck, Ronald Reagan, and Donald Trump.
Hai molti amici?
Very few
Quali tratti del carattere delle persone del tuo sesso non ti piacciono?
Violent behavior and out of control emotions
Che tratti del carattere della gente dell'altro sesso non ti piacciono?
Inability to trust and accept love. Being selfish, greedy and feminism.
Vorresti cambiare qualcosa in te stesso?
Not so much of a perfectionist about myself...not others,
Quali sono i tuoi difetti?
Criticizing myself too much.
Quali sono i tuoi pregi?
A wide knowledge base that allows me to see the big picture, a good listener, compassionate, forgiving, level headed.
Come ti vedono i tuoi amici?
Smart, funny, trustworthy and loyal
Come ti vedono i tuoi conoscenti?
Sometimes unapproachable because until you get to know me my introversion and shyness is dominant.
Quali sono i tuoi giochi preferiti?
Any card games, particularly poker.
Chi sono i tuoi scrittori e poeti preferiti?
Arthur Conan Doyle, Mark Twain, Edgar Allen Poe, Keats, Carl Sandburg
Quale genere di musica ti piace?
Classical, Chamber Music, Big Band, Jazz, Blues, Classic Rock, Country....many kinds...but not Rap.
Qual'è il tuo cibo preferito?
Like most things except Italian. Occasionally it's OK but pasta not my favorite food.
Quali sono i tuoi film preferiti?
Casablanca, The Patriot, Hunger Games, Harry Potter, black and white movies, Star Trek, Star Wars, Forbidden Planet, Anything set in Victorian or Edwardian Era.
Quali sono le tue favole preferite?
Beauty and the Beast
Qual'è il tuo passatempo preferito?
Writing and reading...learning new things.
Qual'è il lavoro dei tuoi sogni?
Writer and lecturer...motivational speaking.
La (il) partner che sogno
Someone who loves me with all of her heart and who I too can love completely with all of my heart. My soulmate and life partner. She is beautiful and smart. Courageous but also unafraid to be weak (with me). A passionate lover who is playful and open. Nothing hidden. Trusting and Trustworthy. Loyal and not jealous.
Dove vorresti vivere?
In a quiet country setting away from a lot of people but also close enough to the city that when I want to I can experience being in the hustle and bustle.
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