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John, 65 岁., 美国, 奧克拉荷馬市

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名字: John

年龄: 65

地点: 美国, 奧克拉荷馬市

星座: 金牛座

体重: 120公斤

身高: 188厘米

眼睛颜色: 灰色

头发颜色: 椒盐色

体型: 有点胖

你的身上有: 疤痕

抽烟的频率: 经常

喝酒的频率: 偶尔（社交时）

睡觉习惯: 不相干

包含资料:

婚姻状况: 鳏寡

你愿意搬家吗?:

我只能待在本地。

你生活中重要的事情:

家庭，长期关系
福利/福祉
平衡的心态
艺术的自我表现

我的财产: 房子/阁楼, 汽车

你住在哪里?: 单独房屋/阁楼

你怎么安排旅行和见面费用: 我没准备支付

教育: 研究生学位

你信奉什么宗教?: 基督教新教

我愿意告知有关我的残疾信息: 糖尿病2型, Under control with oral medication and diet

我的另一半

年龄: 38 - 60

国家: 西欧, 东欧, 北美

体重: 49.94 - 74.91 公斤

身高: 157 - 183 厘米

眼睛颜色: 任意

头发颜色: 任意

可以接受对方有孩子吗?: 可以

体型: 一般, 肌肉型, 有点胖, 健壮

烟: 偶尔

酒: 偶尔（社交时）

种族偏好: 亚洲人, 白人/高加索人

兴趣爱好

喜欢栽花种草吗?: 不介意帮忙
喜欢购物吗?: 努力干而不是受饥饿
喜欢其他购物方式吗?: 我不介意
喜欢做饭吗?: 我喜欢做饭
经常去餐馆吃饭吗?: 一周两次
喜欢在外面吃饭吗?: 我喜欢
当谈到电视时: 换到资讯频道
当谈到钱时: 我曾经乱花钱，但我是有限度的。
聚会时的角色: 那要看情况。人家邀请我了吗?
保持我的空间: 重要场合保持整洁
我的理想是住在: 在山上的小屋
对宠物的偏好: 没有但喜欢猫, 狗, 鱼, 鸟

最喜欢的电视节目?: 科幻, 自然/野生动物, 神秘/惊悚, 电影, 教育, 戏剧, 纪录片, 喜剧片, 动作/冒险
消磨时间的方式: 读一本好书
我喜欢的活动: 钓鱼, 打猎, 散步
我喜欢看或玩的运动: 棒球, 篮球, 保龄球, 高尔夫球
我喜欢的娱乐形式: 赌博, 音乐, 飞镖, 美食, 电影, 博物馆/艺术, 古典音乐, 乡村音乐, 爵士乐, 摇滚音乐, 阅读
其它爱好或兴趣: 古董, 猫, 创意写作, 狗, 哲学/灵修, 旅行

问卷

你怎么描述自己?: Classic gentleman who dresses up regularly even though I don’t have to, knowledgeable in a wide range of topics (3 degrees – Bachelor of Arts (double major) Religion and History, Bachelor of Science - Psychology and Masters of Social Work, Almost Masters of Education in Counseling Psychology – 6 hours short). I have taught undergraduate and graduate level social work at two universities and enjoy reading and writing. If I could I would quit my job and become a full time writer today (but ahhh when I retire – 5 years and counting). I’ve had a video blog on traditional wet shaving on YouTube for several years…it was my hobby but because of life struggles I haven’t posted in over a year. I’m the Mad Scientist of Wet Shaving. Also have a blog on emotional trauma and wet shaving on squarespace called vintagerazorcollection. I was once a newspaper journalist and photographer. I’m essentially an old soul who is out of place in the modern world. I’m usually quiet, a deep thinker (who over analyzes), but level headed and insightful. I quietly watch and listen but when I do talk people listen or I insert in the conversation a cutting dry humor one line comment that puts everyone on the floor laughing. At first many people view me as stand-offish, mysterious, and unapproachable...but give me a few minutes and usually people warm up to me quickly once they know the real me. Past life traumas have cause me to be somewhat guarded, but I have learned from them (twin brother died at birth, father died when I was 8 yrs. old, widowed twice (been widowed for past 5 years). Our adopted son - now 19, out of the home and estranged from me due to his meth and heroin abuse and stealing - nearly destroyed me emotionally and financially after my second wife died. Frankly the past few years has been a living hell. Struggling to try and sell my 3600 ft house because I can’t afford it anymore and I don’t need all that space living alone. I’m currently writing a book about trauma...I refer to it as having “Trauma Bombs” - those often common large and small life events that everyone has but their explosion and damage often leaves toxic emotional fallout radiation for months and years later. I’m here seeking a classy beautiful woman (inside and out) who likes to look good in public, dress well, is intelligent, outgoing, vivacious, romantic, affectionate and sexy. A life partner. I know many women have been traumatized by men in their past - emotionally and physically...they too have become wary and guarded in relationships. That doesn’t scare me away...I am patient and can wait for the inner passions of a woman to emerge once trust has been restored. You must be willing to touch and be touched, talk and listen. It is crucial for bonding and true intimacy and love to grow. I will know you are true, not fake and sincere if you reference something I have written here when messaging or texting me.
你怎样描述你理想的伴侣?: Beautiful and passionate woman who is a partner in everything.
如果你知道时间在30天后终止，你愿意做什么?: Spend time with those I love.
如果你有一千万美元，你打算做什么?: Start a business, travel, give to those less fortunate.
你经常向谁请教?: Occasionally from my brother or sister but usually just from myself and God.
对于同性别的人，你最看重什么品质?: The ability to show tender emotions and love.
对于异性，你最看重什么品质?: The ability to be open to love and not live in past trauma
你生命中最近的一次重要事件是什么，是怎样影响你的?: The death of my wife 5 years ago brought about a sequence of traumatic events (long story). I have tried my best to deal with my past trauma and exorcise it's effects from my life.
你能给自己孩子最好的教诲是什么?: Don't listen to the mass media or your peers. Be strong and think for yourself. Test things for the real truth and not what tickles the ears.
什么给你留下了深刻的印象或震惊?: How everyday little traumatic events and over time accumulate and totally control how you interact with your world.
你最近读过的书?: The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes.
你现在的目标?: To sell my house and prepare for retirement so I can finally travel and write.
你羡慕谁?: Gordon Ramsay, Tom Selleck, Ronald Reagan, and Donald Trump.
你的朋友多吗?: Very few
对于同性，你最讨厌哪些品质?: Violent behavior and out of control emotions
对于异性，你最讨厌哪些品质?: Inability to trust and accept love. Being selfish, greedy and feminism.
对于自己，你愿意改变什么?: Not so much of a perfectionist about myself...not others,
你的弱点是什么?: Criticizing myself too much.
你的强项是什么?: A wide knowledge base that allows me to see the big picture, a good listener, compassionate, forgiving, level headed.
你的朋友怎么看待你?: Smart, funny, trustworthy and loyal
你的熟人怎么看待你?: Sometimes unapproachable because until you get to know me my introversion and shyness is dominant.
你最喜欢的游戏是什么?: Any card games, particularly poker.
你最喜欢的作家和诗人是谁?: Arthur Conan Doyle, Mark Twain, Edgar Allen Poe, Keats, Carl Sandburg
你喜欢什么音乐?: Classical, Chamber Music, Big Band, Jazz, Blues, Classic Rock, Country....many kinds...but not Rap.
你最喜欢什么食物?: Like most things except Italian. Occasionally it's OK but pasta not my favorite food.
你最喜欢什么电影?: Casablanca, The Patriot, Hunger Games, Harry Potter, black and white movies, Star Trek, Star Wars, Forbidden Planet, Anything set in Victorian or Edwardian Era.
你最喜欢的童话故事是什么?: Beauty and the Beast
你最喜欢的活动或爱好是什么?: Writing and reading...learning new things.
你梦寐以求的工作是什么?: Writer and lecturer...motivational speaking.
请描述你理想的伴侣.: Someone who loves me with all of her heart and who I too can love completely with all of my heart. My soulmate and life partner. She is beautiful and smart. Courageous but also unafraid to be weak (with me). A passionate lover who is playful and open. Nothing hidden. Trusting and Trustworthy. Loyal and not jealous.
你想住在哪里?: In a quiet country setting away from a lot of people but also close enough to the city that when I want to I can experience being in the hustle and bustle.